The Universe ALWAYS Unfolds In Perfection...

Perfection...? What a hard concept to grasp. what if...there were no mistakes? Just lessons. Hmmmm...perfect lessons conducted by the universe to get us higher and higher in consciousness. Can you see how letting go of the notion that there ARE mistakes could be completely freeing for you? It would allow you to step back out of the chaos and be an observer of the situation at hand. Ask yourself, what is the good in this? There is always good in every situation. somewhere, somehow..( Or..what we would call good. There actually is no such thing as bad OR good, but that's a whole different blog). We would be able to analyze why it is happening and allow it to happen, to unfold, and face it instead of running from it or fighting it. And remember that what you think about, you bring about. So, imagine what thinking about how bad the situation is, over and over, creates for you. What are you calling into existence? More situations to complain about. This is where the popular phrase "when it rains, it pours" comes from. Negative thinking creates more negative thinking. BUT..what if when it rained it just sprinkled a little? And then the skies became clear and sunny, and a rainbow appeared? Well, that is only a thought away...YOU can create that by thinking about the good, the positive in the situation. Allowing it to happen and pass through you. You may not understand at the time why it is happening, but if you can allow it to come and be neutral about it, the reason, the good, will appear. Maybe not right at that moment, but it will come to you. But you will never get to the reason if you fight the experience. The universe says "Ok..they did not get the lesson I was so lovingly giving to them this time, so I will present it again to them, in a different way, at a different time, until they do". You, yes YOU can create the kind of weather you will have in your day, everyday, simply by thought. It may sound crazy, hey it may even sound impossible, but what do you have to lose in trying it this way? How is what you are currently doing working for you? You wouldn't be here reading this to the end if it was going so great...You can do it. I believe in you!!
Namaste,
Renee

Looking for love in all the wrong places..(Like in Others)

" You complete me". Ahh..the famous line form the movie Jerry Maquire. But that is Hollywood and this is life.Truth is no one can complete you but YOU. It's such a hard concept to grasp because we are conditioned in the society that we live in to believe that someone else has to complete you in order for you to be happy. When you are married we say they are our other half or better half. But, I don't have to tell you the divorce rate in this country is astronomical. If you are not complete BEFORE you meet someone, what are you bringing to the relationship? Half of a person? Yes. That is exactly accurate. You are half , hoping to find the other half of what you are missing in the other person. That's a lot of unfair pressure on the other person, don't you think? If you depend on someone else to make you happy, they will let you down, every time. Because the only person who can make you happy is YOU. Let's just say that you were complete and you met another person that was complete. How wonderful would that relationship be? You are not requiring anything from that person. You don't NEED that person for anything. You can just be your complete fabulous selves and enjoy each other. And if it didn't work out, you wouldn't feel depleted because they wouldn't be taking anything away from you...(remember you were whole when you met) so you could truly just be thankful for the experience and move on. No distraught. It's like the analogy of two fish swimming in the ocean together. You both are complete with all the water you will ever need. You don't seek that person out because you need water. You can be in each others presence and just enjoy the wholeness of all the water and share swimming in it together. When that person leaves, you both leave with the same amount of water you had to begin with. It doesn't drain you.You remain happy even when they are gone because you were happy to begin with. Can you imagine living life this way? Swim in love, all the time.And whoever comes swimming by, enjoy them while they are there, just like you would enjoy anything else in life that takes its time to float by and bless you. Experiences, people, whatever. But remember happiness starts from the inside and can never be found outside of yourself.  And also remember I love you!
Namaste,
Renee